One of the most fascinating aspects of 2018 for me is the fact that I am once again reviewing individual magazine issues much more often this year than I had for years previously. And typically, with mainstream manga like Yagate Kimi ni Naru/Bloom Into You, once it gets established and popular I tend to not bother, since I’ll review the collected volumes.

However. The January 2019 issue of Monthly Dengeki Daioh (月刊コミック 電撃大王 2019年1月号) contains something so extraordinary and – for me – so important – that I felt it was worth a special call out. And it had a clearfile. ^_^

To begin with, I will remind you that I have had several reservations about the narrative and characters of Yagate Kimi ni Naru, since the beginning. I have also trusted Nakatani-sensei to have good judgement and have trusted her to tell a compelling story that holds up to scrutiny. I feel that my trust has been well-placed, which is really refreshing.

I will also remind you that I have long desired the portrayal in manga of adult role models for younger characters, so they are not left to struggle with feelings of same-sex love in what they believe is isolation. This is one of the things that keeps me coming back to this particular series, as we’ve seen Kodama Miyako, the cafe owner, befriend high school student Sayaka and take on this role. 

In this issue, we learn how Miyako and her lover (a teacher at Yuu’s school,) Hakozaki Riko, met. They met in college and while their story is not groundbreaking, it is pleasant and realistic. What is groundbreaking is that we see the two getting ready for bed and chatting – and Riko-sensei says to Miyako that it must be strange for her to be a role model to Sayaka. Miyako says that it is a little weird to be guiding the girl, but it must be harder to be a teacher. 

This exchange is mind-blowing. Not only is there an established female couple to exist as role models for the young woman who knows well enough what she is, but is still looking for who she is, they talk about it. I have never before seen that in a Yuri manga. In the real world, most of the older LGBTQ folks I know do, in fact, talk about this. We talk about the importance of being out and being role models precisely for this reason. But even in manga where characters openly identify as LGBTQ, I have never before seen a character say, well, yeah, it’s weird that I’m a role model, but I’m glad to be able to help a young person find their way. Which Miyako basically does.

And that, my friends, my dear readers, is the “cut, scene,” moment for 2018 for me. We have come so far in such a short time. I cannot *wait* to see what 2019 has to offer!

Ratings:

Adult Role Models who know that that is what they are doing for the fucking win. 10

I’m going to spend some time this weekend working on the end-of-year- Top Ten lists and I have never before looked forward to them so much!  ^_^