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Assorted Entanglements, Volume 4

June 7th, 2024

A woman in sweatsuit and a girl in a school uniform sit close in a classroom as the sunset turns golden in the windows.by Matt Marcus, Staff Writer

In the previous volume of Assorted Entanglements, a new couple joined our problematic posse with the 3rd year high school student Sugimoto and her perpetually maidenless gym teacher, Kujou. Everybody else is still on their normal bullshit.

Assorted Entanglements Volume 4, brings something that was sorely needed to the series: character development. No, really! The series up to this point was content with short four-page chapters that loosely hung together but were mostly setups for gags. About a third of the way through this volume, Mikanuji-sensei starts writing longer chapters that expound more on the girlsā€™ histories and their evolving connections to each other. Itā€™s something that I would not have explicitly asked for, but it greatly benefits the whole package.

Minami has a flashback to the time she spent with Shizuku after getting out of the child services facility, which prompts a crisis of confidence. Nevertheless, she continues to think only of Iori and how she might leave her someday. After another open-handed peptalk from her older lover [sigh], Iori admits that she is a terrible person (true!), but she says that they would not have met if either one of them were normal. Itā€™s almost touching!

Elsewhere in the city, a meaningless spat between Shizuku and Saori* leads to the two girls not talking for some time. Shizuku, never one to be fully honest with herself, finds herself feeling lonely enough that she goes out of her way to patch things up by laying out her point of view for Saori: that she is a fundamentally broken person who cannot relate to ā€œnormalā€ people, and thus despises them. Saori accepts this, finding common cause as maladjusted girls with twisted, unfulfillable loves. Itā€™s kind of endearing!

Kujouā€™s girlfriend quest hits a snag as she gets a harsh dressing down from the cantankerous manager of the lesbian bar. Sugimoto is still trying to push her along, her last act in the volume being to offer her teacher an aquarium date as a ā€œgirlfriend testā€ (we all knew this was coming). We do find out in a bonus chapter that Sugimoto found the gig at the maid cafe after finding herself too gripped with panic to deal with the social stressors at school, and that seeing Kujou outside the bar everyday gave her the motivation to go back to class. Itā€™s nearly sweet!

While all the other couples are angsting it up, Heke-san and Shinohara are still slowly circling towards each other like a binary star system. They are still the most wholesome couple here. Itā€™s refreshing!

You may be detecting a theme here. With some space to stretch out, Mikanuji-sensei is able to add more contour to the characters and, despite all of my kvetching and faint praise, there is a core here that I do indeed like about this series. Itā€™s still a hard recommend, but if youā€™ve stuck it out through three volumes already this one is worth picking up; itā€™s the best the series has been so far.

Art – 7 No major changes here, but Shizuku does give one the best ā€œsilent seething rageā€ faces Iā€™ve seen put to page
Story – 8 Itā€™s not going to win an Eisner but at least itā€™s trying
Characters – 7 Everyoneā€™s schtick is firmly established here, yet there is some growth
Service – 2 Points are mostly for Minamiā€™s tattoos
Yuri – 9 / LGBTQ – 9 Kujou gets a lesbian dating app

Overall – 8 Normality is overrated

Volume 5 of this ensemble story of Sapphic misfits is coming our way in June.

*I hadnā€™t noticed until recently that while the localization by Eleanor Ruth Summers has been excellent, Ioriā€™s sisterā€™s name has ping-ponged between Shiori and Saori throughout the series, even within the same volume. Itā€™s an odd editing miss. Either may be technically correct, but after some discussion in the discord we have decided to go with Saori.

Matt Marcus is a serial enthusiast whose range of appreciations include guitars, watches, and a particular genre of Japanese popular media named after a flower. Outside of writing for Okazu, he cohosts various projects on the Pitch Drop Podcast Network, where he frequently bloviates about video games, anime, and manga. He also hosts a blog Oh My God, They Were Bandmates analyzing How Do We Relationship in greater depth.





Okazu Staff takes on Yuri Is My Job, Volume 12

May 13th, 2024

Two girls in green, old-fashioned Japanese school uniforms embrace. A girl with blond hair and glasses tenderly holds a girl with blue hair, who holds on tentatively.Yuri Is My Job, Volume 12 came out in English from the fantastic team at Kodansha and it was…a lot. I had reviewed it in Japanese almost a year ago, and it was a lot then, too. After discussion with Okazu Staff Writers, I decided that it was big enough and complicated enough that no one person ought to have to shoulder it. So, welcome to the very first Okazu Staff Writers Group Review. Here you will find 5 perspectives on this volume, each from people whose opinions you trust, but who are all quite different people.

CW for this volume and these reviews: sexual assault, emotional manipulation, trauma.

 

Reviews by:

Luce | Christian LeBlanc | Eleanor Walker | Matt Marcus | Erica Friedman

 


Luce

Goeido had always been a divisive character, I imagine. Since she was introduced back in volume four, she was shown to be manipulative and callous, something only expounded upon every time she showed up. Last volume, her and Kanoko went to a hotel together – just to ‘talk’. This volume, we get the culmination of that interaction, and boy howdy is it uncomfortable. Not happy getting Sumika and Nene to think that her and Kanoko are in a relationship, she essentially comes on to Kanoko, to prove to her that kissing and sex are important in a relationship. Kanoko is stuck, because admitting that kissing might be important means that Yano kissing Hime meant something, but if it was important, that implies that Hime didn’t mind this from Yano, something Kanoko cannot bear.

The sexual violence warned about on the contents page, I think, (although I’m concerned it’s a bit too easily missed, though I’m happy it’s there) refers to two separate incidents in this volume. The first with Goeido and Kanoko – where Kanoko unwillingly has her skirt and top taken off, and as far as the reader can tell, that’s as far as it goes (however, Goeido is at least twenty, but probably a little older, and Kanoko is 15/16). Equally uncomfortable was the second incident, where Kanoko, on the same day, forces a kiss onto Sumika, and feels up her breasts, without asking for any consent. Sumika pushes her away, and ultimately it shows up Kanoko’s extremely warped thinking, which honestly I have some trouble following. But they talk about it, which is good.

Goeido’s actions are reprehensible, definitely, and as an asexual person, extremely uncomfortable, but not for the reason you might think. I am fine with sex scenes in manga. It’s her implication that love cannot exist without sex, which I would like to vehemently oppose. I feel like this is meant to represent Goeido’s views rather than necessarily the mangaka’s, but it still sticks out as uncomfortable to me. For her, love and sex are completely linked in a way that no one else in the manga thinks about – and I can’t help but wonder if she might be aromantic allosexual, albeit terrible representation for an extremely underrepresented and demonised orientation. But to me, in many ways, it makes sense – her insistence that love is impossible without kissing and sex. Her ability to walk away from Nene when her job requirements changed. Nene states that every time they met up, they ended up in a hotel, having sex.

Honestly, I don’t even really like this interpretation, but it equally makes sense to me. I don’t like it because alloaros, as they are coined, are forgotten, or the characters that might most likely be alloaro are the ‘players’, the assholes who use people for sex then leave without a second thought, which is definitely not defining for the entire group, the same way other stereotypes are not indictive of entire other orientations. But in a manga where romantic love has been shown to tear people up, make them blush and just react in general, Goeido has always felt calculating and calm. Maybe she’s just in control of her emotions, apart from a few surprised expressions. But even with Nene, she’s always shown to be in control of the situation, never reacts much outside of a general pleasantness that she shows to almost everyone bar Sumika.

I think she’s a bit similar to Hime, actually.

Perhaps they are two sides of the same coin – Hime as the ‘good’ side, and Goeido as the ‘bad’ side. They both have a facade of innocent pleasantness, whereas their true selves are far more manipulative and callous. The difference is that Goeido seems to want to stir chaos and hurt people (especially Sumika), whereas Hime, when push comes to shove, wants to help and keep people together. Hime, though, has been forced to grow and change over the series, pushed by the immovable rock of Yano, refusing to back down and let her get away with her manipulations. Goeido hasn’t changed a single bit. She’s stuck on getting back at Sumika – and I’m pretty sure that’s why she came back to Cafe Liebe in the first place. Either to bait Sumika, or to get an in to get someone else to.

Perhaps Nene was onto something – maybe she was attracted to Sumika. As a beautiful lady, perhaps someone not being attracted to her heated so much she wanted to take revenge against everything that meant something to Sumika. Maybe she was just mad that Sumika saw through her facade. Who knows – part of me thinks this won’t be the last we see of Goeido, not that I especially want to see her again. I think I’ll be glad when the air starts to clear, as it might do next volume between Kanoko and Sumika, and we return back to Mitsuki and Hime.

 


Chris LeBlanc

I will admit, reading Volume 12 a second time to gather my thoughts felt even more uncomfortable than reading it the first time.

I have this idea that most online arguments could be resolved if people would just understand that different things work for different people. Goeido would disagree with this theory, however – I get the feeling she believes everyone else on the planet feels the same way she does about sex and romance, and anyone who claims to have different ideas about these things is being delusional. It feels like everyone in Yuri Is My Job! are on different pages when it comes to this, though, and while that usually makes for enjoyable dramatic conflict, letā€™s just say that Goeido crosses a lot of lines in this volume.

Thereā€™s a part later in the book where Kanoko claims to have been unharmed by Goeido, but this is clearly not the case, underscored by the black gutters and panel borders in this section (a technique normally reserved for flashbacks in manga). Happily, the visual tones eventually turn much brighter as Sumika tries to help Kanoko through this chapter, even leading to a cute bit where she tries slipping into Schwester-speak for a moment before dismissing it.

 

 

Eleanor Walker

There are many different kinds of love, and Goeido, one of our central characters for this volume believes that sex and love (and possibly violence, I would argue) are intrinsically linked, and one is not possible without the others. Moreover, anyone who disagrees with her is automatically wrong and must be shown the error of her ways. I am not generally a fan of sexual assault used as a plot device, but this volume handles it pretty well, and it works within the context of the story. However, the full colour spread of Goeido posing in lingerie to open the volume left me viscerally uncomfortable, especially in a series which hasnā€™t been terribly focused on fanservice. But my favourite moment was when Saionji shows up and reminds Goeido that not everyone thinks like she does.
 
 
Kanoko pretends thatā€™s sheā€™s alright after the event, but she definitely seems off to me, and I hope the next volumes have her getting help to deal with such a traumatic experience.
 
 

Matt Marcus

I struggled a lot with this volume. On the one hand, I understand exactly what Miman chose to do: they decided that Kanoko needed an extreme push to break her calcified conception of Hime and her relationships in order to drive her character arc forward. Narratively, itā€™s a sound maneuver, and it is effective insofar as it demonstrates how some people will desperately hold onto a belief despite knowing it will do them tangible harm, and how in turn they can reflect that harm onto others. On the other hand, I think what Miman chose to do was in poor taste and has negative implications to the themes of the series.

Goiedo was an interesting character to me. Sure, she was a bad person, but she was for the most part honest in her intentions. She was very clear with Nene that they were fooling around to make Sumika jealous and to have a bit of fun: nothing more, nothing less. Itā€™s not really her fault that Neneā€™s feelings developed into romanceā€¦OK it kind of is, but she could have continued to exploit Neneā€™s feelings for her, but that wasnā€™t the contract they made. Yes, the relationship ended once it was no longer convenient for her which is a shitty thing to do, but nevertheless I found it compelling that she was a villain who meant what she said and held herselfā€”and Neneā€”accountable.

What Goeido does to Kanoko, however, is simply beyond the pale. Itā€™s one thing to play around with the heart of a sensitive girl, but itā€™s another to enact targeted psychological violence at the threat of serious intimate violence. To me, at that point she stopped being a believable plot device and turned into a plot contrivance. She is instrumentalized as a mouthpiece of a certain viewpoint on romance without any explanation as for why she believes it. There was an opportunity for this, as she is very familiar with A Maidenā€™s Heart and no doubt should have opinions on how it depicts relationships between girls and what it represents. As we see on the page, she has feelings on how the characters acted within the confines of the story, but does not take a viewpoint of how the story itself relates to the real worldā€”in a series that is all about meta-narrative.

What tweaks me more, is that Miman wants us to believe that the assault happenedā€¦until Kanoko reveals later that it didnā€™t. And then Kanoko assaults Sumika. It all feels very emotionally manipulative, playing with very triggering subject matter. I think the same narrative turns could have been accomplished without it. Goeido can still be the villain; Kanoko can still panic and flail; Sumika can still be angry and hurt. It just didnā€™t need to be this.

This narrative turn also unintentionally creates problems for the meta-narrative structure of the series as well. There was always an ongoing tension between the sanitized, pseudo-romantic Class S performances in the cafe and the messier real relationships that were occurring simultaneously. So far, Goeido is the only character who transgressed the Class S ā€œpurityā€ by introducing sex into the story. Given how sheā€™s also now unequivocally a predator, coupled with Sumikaā€™s statement that she has no interest in a physical relationship with Kanoko, frames sexual desire as only a corruptive weapon. It aligns the ā€œrealā€ world with the fictional world of Liebe in that the relationship between girls is only good when it is the pure bond of the Schwesterns. Itā€™s a turn that feels regressive, reminding me specifically of the muddled messages from the Yuri Kuma Arashi anime.

Hell, when you look at the whole of WataYuri, every kiss weā€™ve seen was given without consentā€”Yano on Hime, Goeido on Nene, and now Kanoko on Sumika. Physical romantic intimacy is thus represented as always a case of someone imposing their desires on another, starting at its origin (itā€™s worth noting that five of the six characters mentioned were experiencing their first kiss in this context). When Kanoko offers herself to Sumika, she says, ā€œyou have to hurt me as much as I hurt you,ā€ clearly framing sexual intimacy as harmful. Obviously, one can have romance without sexā€”and thatā€™s a great thingā€”but Miman seems to be saying that romance, at least between women, should only be without it.

We have had some great discussions about WataYuri in the Okazu discord, and one of the viewpoints raised by Erica and others is that one can read this series as celebrating the potential power of the bonds of sisterhood from Class S stories rather than rejecting it, which is an argument I can support; however, if the series also drags along the negative aspects of those tropes with it into the modern day, Iā€™d rather such stories be left in the past.

Also the hotel shouldā€™ve been called Best Schwestern. I mean, cā€™mon.

 

Erica Friedman

I have now read these chapters three times. The first in the pages of Comic Yuri Hime magazine, where they were a genuine shock, again in the collected volume where I could take time to be truly angry at Yoko. As an adult, her actions are morally repugnant and criminal. I sat with my feelings about no one in the Cafe being able to see what kind of person Yoko was and, I’ll admit, considered dropping the story. I was that angry.

Now I have read the chapters for third time, this time in my native language and it allowed me a chance to delve into all the nuanced ways this arc has made me uncomfortable. Primarily – I do not like Kanako. I have never liked her as a character. Her obsession with Hime blinds her to everything and everyone else. When she hurt no one but herself, she was tolerable. When Sumika became involved, it was not. I am not a fan of “obsession” in literature, as it has been co-opted by serial killer/stalk “”thrillers.” I have been trained to keep waiting for Kanako to snap.

Sumika’s own delusion is pretty high – she imagines that she is above romantic love and attraction and when intimacy with Kanako forces her to rethink that, she does not handle it maturely. Because she, too, is a child. We look at Kanako and see an innocent, naive girl, but forget that Sumika is only a teenager, as well. Kanoko’s inability to “see” other people and understand their motivations is a complicated matter. Yes, Kanako absolutely pings neurodivergent (as does Mitsuki,) but I, personally, have a belief that if you read that much, surely you begin to understand something about people. I did not understand people my own age, but I understood human nature as a whole at Kanako’s age, purely from reading books by and for adults.

So as we watch Kanako walk into Yoko’s hotel room, of course we are screaming at the pages of the book…but also I am screaming at Kanoko. How have she read so much and is unable to see that Yoko is not okay?

Yoko, too, has an obsession. Her only goal is to hurt Sumika. The why is not all that critical to the story, and it will be handwaved into an almost unbelievable act of hurting the thing one loves, as if Yoko is a child in kindergarten aggressively teasing someone they like because they don’t know how to act appropriately. As Matt points out, even though the why is not critical…there should have been an attempt at giving us a why.

This third time, I sat with all the layers of discomfort – not liking Kanako, but also forced to sympathize as she deals with all-too-real trauma.   Not liking Yoko, on multiple levels, including the way she is presented to us as a sexual creature (encapsulated in a very uncomfortable-making two-page spread of Yoko in lingerie ), then her words and actions to Kanako making no real sense, as if she’s a cult member trying to proselytize. And Sumika, whose desire to protect Kanako is bifurcated into competing needs for intimacy and responsibility, with no clear understanding of how to do either. And back to Kanoko, who will deal with this trauma…but maybe not take the right lesson from it?

This is a rough volume, about characters making bad choices sometimes for good reasons, sometimes for appalling reasons. But it is an important volume to move both Sumika and Kanoko out of their childish delusions, into more adult delusions. The question I am left with is…is this what we needed or wanted from Yuri Is My Job!?

For such a silly premise, this story has had more than it’s fair share of me shouting at the characters.





Assorted Entanglements, Volume 3

April 10th, 2024

A woman in pink hair and headphones sits in front of a keyboard, in a gaming chair, while a woman with blue hair leans on the desk next to her.by Matt Marcus, Staff Writer

Previously in Assorted Entanglements Volume 2, sparks and virtual bullets flew as we met mangaka Heke-sensei and her editor Shinohara, who not-so-anonymously play an online First Person Shooter game together while harboring mutual crushes. Meanwhile, Shizuku and Shiori slowly float closer to each other, somehow.

For Assorted Entanglements Volume 3, Mikanuji-sensei mustā€™ve thought ā€œhmmm the last new couple was a little too wholesome. Itā€™s time to spin the Wheel! Of! Problematic! ā€˜Ships!ā€ A giant prize wheel rolls in and is vigorously spun. Plasticky ratcheting sounds burst out then slowly decelerate as the selection arrow slowly passes over OL x JK, then Sister x Sister (Adopted), and finally Sister x Sister (Not Adopted) before landing on: Teacher x Student. A sizzle reel plays for the winning couple. For some reason they are riding jet skis at a Sandals Resort.

Thatā€™s probably not how it happened (Iā€™m sure there was an editor involved somewhere). However, it is less dire than you may be thinking. For now.

Our new pair of star-crossed acquaintances is the stoic gym teacher Kujou and one of her students, 3rd year Sugimoto. Every day after school, Kujou stands outside the door of a lesbian bar, too afraid to enter. Inevitably, she chickens out and instead frequents the maid cafƩ next door where Sugimoto works. Sugimoto, who is a bit of a misanthropic loner despite her good looks, decides seemingly on a whim that she is going to help Kujou on her quest to enter the bar and finally find herself a girlfriend.

It becomes clear pretty quickly that Sugimoto is on her way to catching feelings for Kujou; blessedly, her gym teacher doesnā€™t even register her as an option, despite noticing that her student is pushing the boundaries of a proper teacher/student relationship. (I hate that I find this refreshing.) Regardless, the comedic dynamic between these two works. Sugimotoā€™s acerbic tongue is a fun foil to Kujouā€™s sad puppy vibes. Iā€™m just mildly concerned about where the story is going to take them.

Aside from these two, there are still three other ā€œcouplesā€ to check in on. Not too much has changed between Minami and Iori, however the same canā€™t be said for their ā€œjiltedā€ hangers-on. In fact, Shizukuā€™s hard-assery has softened considerably towards Shiori, much to the latterā€™s chagrin. You can see the little dance they are doing, inching towards each other then repelling apart mostly because Shiori likes to throw Shizukuā€™s feelings back in her face to goad her into anger for a laugh. Despite that, progress is being made. For some reason, Iā€™m rooting for them.

Meanwhile, Heke-sensei and Shinohara begin spending more and more time with each other, often pretending to be lovers for ā€œmaterialā€ to inspire Heke-senseiā€™s storyboarding. Each time Heke-sensei tries to close the gap, Shinoharaā€™s bluntness and desire to hide her crush ends up unintentionally sending the wrong signals to her coworker/secret gaming buddy. They are the goofiest and most wholesome pairing in this series, so itā€™s always a nice reprieve when they show up.

I mentioned the artā€™s Same Face Syndrome in my review of Volume 2, but somehow the issue has now spread to entire characters. You canā€™t have your characters say a line like ā€œyou should be able to recognize your studentsā€ and then give multiple characters 99% the same face and haircut.

These are three different characters. Two of them are 12 years apart in age. No, I canā€™t tell them apart either.

Also, every now and then thereā€™s some weird body proportions. Thereā€™s one panel in particular where Shinoharaā€™s right arm appears to have grown 30% too big for her body.

The thing that continues to hold my interest is the humor (again, shoutout to Eleanor Ruth Summers for the excellent localization). Unfortunately, there are still moments of ā€œyikesā€ that keep me from truly singing its praises. Itā€™s like eating that PB&J sandwich you packed with you to the beach: no matter how careful you are, you will get a bite or two of sand that feels like itā€™ll crack your teeth. In one notable case, Minami is acting passive-aggressively and Iori has no idea why, and it turns out that she is grumpy because the night before, Iori, who was blackout drunk, did something out of pocket in bed. Itā€™s supposed to be a reversal joke, but thereā€™s enough ā€œickā€ to it that it is hard to handwave, let alone laugh at it. The series continues to be one that has enough rough spots to make it difficult to recommend.

But despite my complaintsā€¦I am still reading it. This is perhaps the funniest volume so far, and thereā€™s plenty of joy to be had in cropping out panels as reaction images or meme fodder. You just have to be OK taking your Yuri with a grain of sand.

Art – 6 Seems like the art has regressed a touch, and the sameness of the character designs is not helping
Story – 7 A handful of questionable choices hurt it, but the humor stays sharp
Characters – 7 This really is a manga for people who like Women/Girls Who Suck
Service – 4 Iori and Minamiā€™s sex life is still present, and it is a little uncomfy in a couple places
Yuri – 9 / LGBTQ – 9 You did hear me say lesbian bar, ya?

Overall – 7 Iā€™d tell it to run a few extra laps

Volume 4 is currently available in English from Yen Press, with Volume 5 arriving in June. A twisted Yuri comedy with some punch.

Matt Marcus is a serial enthusiast whose range of appreciations include guitars, watches, and a particular genre of Japanese popular media named after a flower. Outside of writing for Okazu, he cohosts various projects on the Pitch Drop Podcast Network, where he frequently bloviates about video games, anime, and manga. He also hosts a blog Oh My God, They Were Bandmates analyzing How Do We Relationship in greater depth.





How Do We Relationship, Volume 10

March 13th, 2024

Two women smile at us, as they walk arm in arm in a city at night.by Matt Marcus, Staff Writer

The other day I attended an ā€œempty the barā€ party for a friend of mine who is moving to Hawaii. Naturally, most of the drinks served were tiki drinks, strong but easy-drinking concoctions of tropical fruit juices mixed with multiple types of overproof rum, often complimented with an earthy hit of allspice dram. The first drink I reached for, however, was not like the others: it was a Bardstown, a potent mix of apple brandy and rye, the kind of drink you nurse slowly as the ice in the glass melts, softening the bite of the booze. I took one large sip and nearly coughed it up onto the floor. I decided to set it aside and make the rounds through the other offeringsā€”a mai tai, a zombie, a painkillerā€”but I would come back and take a sip of Bardstown here and there. I liked it, but I was not looking for something so intense in such a large dosage.

I was thinking on how to approach this review of How Do We Relationship Volume 10, and as I mulled it over, I was thinking about the discussions Iā€™ve had within the Okazu Discord and elsewhere, especially after Ericaā€™s review of Volume 11 in Japanese. I remembered that Bardstown, and the thought rose in my mind that you can think of manga series like cocktails. Citrus is flashy and trashy like a tequila sunriseā€”a poor decision in a glass. Whispering You A Love Song is a virgin Shirley Temple: bubbly, sweet, and at worst will give you a tickle up your nose. How Do We Relationshipā€”when the mix is rightā€”is a negroni. Itā€™s complex, with top notes of herbaceous bitterness but lying beneath is a sweetness that carries you forward to the next sip. And if you have a low tolerance it will knock you on your ass. Itā€™s not to everyoneā€™s taste, and it may not be the right drink for every occasion, but those that love it will reach for it over and over again. The rub is, after all the heartbreak weā€™ve seen these girls endure, Iā€™m sure that a lot of readers are thirsting for some sweet relief. But Tamifull is the bartender, and their hand is getting heavier on the pours.

In Volume 9, Saeko went through a rough stretch leading up to her coming-of-age ceremony only to be saved serendipitously by Miwa. Saeko opens up to Miwa about her past, and the two connect more deeply as friends than they ever had as lovers. Meanwhile, both are having mild struggles with their respective girlfriends, but with each otherā€™s support they should be able to weather these small bumps in the road. The volume ended with a potentially awkward run-in with Tamaki that may blow their ā€œweā€™ve only ever been friendsā€ story.

Of course, if youā€™ve read the series this far you know that Tamifull loves to set up a cliffhanger to end a volume only to lead to an anticlimax at the start of the next. Despite a little bit of sulking, Tamaki ends up making use of the knowledge that Saeko used to date Miwa, because sheā€™s in need of some advice. Miwa wants to have sex frequently and she just canā€™t understand why. But even knowing the ā€œwhyā€ does not answer the ā€œhowā€ she will handle it.

What it boils down to is that Miwa and Tamaki have completely different feelings on sex. Miwaā€™s sex drive is high but has yet to be satisfied; Tamaki mostly feels like sex a chore, albeit one she can sometimes enjoy in her own way. They do have a conversation about it, but you can tell that they are not really understanding each other. Tamaki isnā€™t really being honest with herself about her needs and wants, and she is definitely unaware of the mixed signals she gives to Miwa. Miwa for her part is letting her anxiety overpower her ability to listen. The tension continues to simmer throughout these chapters.

Meanwhile, it turns out that Yuria struggles with depression (surprise!) and does not want Saeko around when she is in that mood. Adding to her feelings of personal failure at work, she feels miserable about Saekoā€™s decision to aim for a high-paying office job to help support her dream of starting her own salon. Saeko feels like sheā€™s acting with the best of intentions, but she canā€™t convince Yuria to accept her choices. The injection of this point of conflict feels like a hard left turn for Yuriaā€™s character in a way that seems calculated. On a metatextual level, I can feel the hand of the mangaka planting the seed of destruction for the relationship, which is a bummer especially after all the work and growth that those two have accomplished together. Nevertheless, it is darkly funny to me for this turn to happen right after I sang Yuriaā€™s praises in my last review.

Thatā€™s not to say that this volume is all doom and gloom. When Tamaki reaches out to Saeko to talk about Miwa, it is a nice moment of vulnerability for her and an opportunity for Saeko to help her friend. Miwa also runs interference with Yuria and helps smooth over the current rough patch with Saeko, demonstrating how much she cares about Saekoā€™s happiness. Yuria and Saeko have a fun onsen trip together, and at the end of the volume they visit Yuriaā€™s hometown to meet her twin sister and her fiancĆ©. All of this great character growth building off of the last volume. That said, there isnā€™t much relief to be had because of the festering undercurrents that are flowing beneath both relationships. Think of it like replacing the Goslingā€™s in your dark & stormy with the Reedā€™s Extra.

Iā€™ve noted in past reviews that the way this series tracks time is quite loose, and in this stretch I felt it most acutely so far. It was surprising for me to realize that by the  end of this installment over a year has passed since the end of Volume 8. (Someday I will map out each volume on a timeline for the blog, which I will update eventually I swear.) That leaves an awful lot of time that we donā€™t get to see. In particular, we donā€™t really spend any time with Miwa and Tamaki enjoying an outing without some kind of tension undercutting or tempering the proceedings. What Tamifull choses to show has always leaned towards scenes that drive the plot forward, which naturally means conflict. It can be exhausting, unless you are someone who has a high craving for drama. After all weā€™ve seen Miwa go through, I think we deserved to have her be happy and satisfied on the page for more than a few fleeting moments.

There is one other pattern in Tamifullā€™s writing that I am starting to notice, which is that relationship developments for side characters function almost entirely to comment on or signal something about the main pairings; in this volume, it is Mikkun and Rika who serve that purpose. It can feel a touch on the nose, like when Tamaki voices her empathy for Mikkun’s old ex-/current/soon-to-be-ex-again girlfriend, who is described as  sex-repulsed. Tamifull does mention in the author commentary that there are lots of dangling threads for the secondary characters that had to be cut to keep the story moving, and this is one of the consequences.

Personally, Iā€™m still enjoying the story even if moments started to wear on me. There are plenty of elements of Tamifullā€™s writing that I continue to appreciate, such as the continuity of character. I briefly turned into Leo DiCaprio pointing at the TV when Tamaki observes that Miwa has a preference for romantic clichĆ©s, something that goes all the way back to the beginning of the series. Also, Saeko’s tendency play caretaker makes another appearance as she tries to keep Yuria from falling deeper into a self-care spiral. The dishwashing scene is a very well observed moment of caring for a partner who struggles with depression that really hit home for me. It’s the depth and nuances of small moments like these that constitutes the sweetness that lingers after the bitterness fades.

Apropos of nothing, I am always amused when a series sums itself up in a single panel

If nothing else, How Do We Relationship continues to serve up the most potent dose of painfully relatable love in the Yuri/GL space. If youā€™ve missed that stinging sensation on your palette from earlier in the series, youā€™re going to be savoring this volume.

Art – 9 You know youā€™re in too deep when you start to notice how the way the characterā€™s noses are drawn has been subtly changing over the past few volumes
Story – 8 You can start to feel the needle move back towards the negative, which may be fatiguing for some
Characters – 8 There is some unevenness with Miwa and Yuria in the service of drama that feels a touch heavy-handed
Service – 6 Yes there is sex but Iā€™m also counting Saeko in her job hunting suit in this score
LGBTQ – 10 Is there really any doubt at this point?

Overall – 8 The bitter top notes are starting to overpower the other flavors, but it is still plenty potable

Volume 12 is currently available in Japan and you can catch up completely with the simulpub chapters on the VIZ Manga site or app. A college LGBTQ drama so real, you’d swear you owe tuition. 

Matt Marcus is a serial enthusiast whose range of appreciations include guitars, watches, and a particular genre of Japanese popular media named after a flower. Outside of writing for Okazu, he cohosts various projects on the Pitch Drop Podcast Network, where he frequently bloviates about video games, anime, and manga. He also hosts a blog Oh My God, They Were Bandmates analyzing How Do We Relationship in greater depth.





Kiss It Goodbye: The Complete Edition

February 7th, 2024

A girl in a green coat over a school uniform and a girl in a sports jacket . holding a bat, sit under the same tree, not looking at one another.by Matt Marcus, Staff Writer

ā€œSo, how did yā€™all meet?ā€

Ah, this old chestnut. You think back to the countless times youā€™ve told this story, each iteration becoming more and more exaggerated and elaborate. Itā€™s not that you are trying to fool anyone, youā€™re just tired of going over the same beats time and time again so youā€™re trying to have a little fun with it. As you recount the story, you sneak glances at your partner, watching them roll their eyes as you enthusiastically assert how impressed they were over tales of your prowess at Magic the Gathering. OK, you were terrible at flirting, and still are. But no one else has to know that.

Kiss It Goodbye: The Complete Edition is the story of Aruka and Yukimi, two women in their mid-twenties. One night, a friend of theirs asks them to tell the story of how the two, who are of very different temperaments, got together. Aruka is a rough-and-tumble tomboy with a penchant for throwing fisticuffs while Yukimi is a studious girl with a love of fashion. They meet as children, grow close together up through middle school, have a falling out in high school, but reconnect before graduation. A couple years later they realize their feelings for each other and begin dating. The end!

If that were all there was to this story, you wouldnā€™t be reading this review. There are a handful of things that seem like small pieces but add to a story that reads better than its synopsis. The framing device adds so much character to the telling. Aruka tends to puff herself up only to be brought back down to earth by Yukimi. They talk honestly about their feelings and how they evolved over time. Itā€™s a nice way to spice up what could be a pretty standard story and doing so in a way that allows the characters to express themselves.

There are other unique factors. I like how instead of opting to settle for maximum drama, the big turning points in Aruka and Yukimiā€™s relationship are worked through in awkward, vulnerable conversations. OK, there is definitely SOME drama, but plenty of the development happens beyond that. I like that the two are not the same orientation: Aruka is an allosexual lesbian however Yukimki is biromantic and asexual. Itā€™s rare to see a pairing to see partners with different needs manage to work things out. The two even have different socioeconomic class and career backgrounds.

Although this story takes place in Japan, it is drawn by Ticcy, who hails from Italy. I find it is interesting to look at a work that borrows heavily from manga but is shown through a different cultural lens, which puts this book in the same bucket as the works that have been reviewed on the site such as Alter Ego, Just Friends, and Mahou Josei Chimaka. All of these works vary in how much they borrow from manga, with Kiss It Goodbye sitting somewhere between the latter two in that the setting is clearly influenced by Japanese media but the art, paneling, and dialogue have a more Western flavor.

What drew me in right away was the art. The character designs are clean and expressive, there are plenty of detailed backgrounds, and the whole comic is rendered in beautiful color. The whole package The series originally published on the online comics platforms Webtoon and Tapas, but was adapted into print through the publisher Hiveworks (who coincidentally also published Chimaka) after a successful Kickstarter in 2022, which I backed. Itā€™s one of the nicer printings on my growing yuri shelf, in a large format with stout glossy pages. Thankfully, physical copies are now publicly available on Hiveworkā€™s website along with an eBook option. KIG was released typically one page at a time, but thankfully it was storyboarded in such a way that you would not be able to tell its webcomic origins in print form. (Also, regular GL webcomic readers may spot a familiar face or two in some crowd shots.)

I would say the biggest criticism I have is false advertising. See, this is called the Complete Edition, however there is more comic out there! Ticcy has written two additional bonus chapters to date that are not collected here and supposedly there is more to come down the road. The book also lacks any additional commentary that came through Q&A segments Ticcy posted during the comicā€™s run that help flesh out some details on the characters that didnā€™t make it into the main body of the story. I would suggest anyone who picks up the book also go find the comic online in order to get that extra content. Ticcy has hinted at the possibility of a second book down the road, but at the moment there are no plans for release and new bonus chapters have been on a hiatus as she focuses on her newer series Dragonā€™s Mercenary that she posts on her Patreon page.

Really, the biggest sin is that there is criminally little time spent with Arukaā€™s softball club-cum-girl gang, especially their leader Saori. Would love to see more of them in a future bonus chapter. Did I mention there is a softball club that beats on street toughs? Yeah, gimme more of that.

Ratings:

Art – 10 Really gorgeous front-to-back, especially in print
Story – 8 The flourishes in the delivery make an otherwise standard story stand out
Characters – 8 Aruka and Yukimi bounce off each other well in both the comedic and dramatic moments
Service – 1 Would be higher with more girl gang escapades
Yuri – 10 / LGBTQ – 9 Would like to see more atypical identity pairings like these two

Overall – 9 It is high! It is far! It isā€¦GONE!

I met my wife on New Yearā€™s Eve having just driven 6 hours that day to move to a new city without a job, an apartment, or much of a plan to get either. If you ask nicely, I may tell you the rest of the story someday.

Matt Marcus is a cohost of various projects on the Pitch Drop Podcast Network. Any tales of his exploits as a teenage delinquent have been greatly fabricated.