In Tamifull’s Yuri drama Tsukiatte Agetemo Iikana, Volume 4 (ไปใๅใฃใฆใใใฆใใใใใช), we are confronted with something we don’t see very often at all in Yuri…two people who may just not be compatible sexually.
When we met Saeko and Miwa, we guessed that they each had some less than wonderful sexual experiences when they were young, (as so many gay people do, if we were trying to have straight sex,) but that does not explain what is going on with Saeko and Miwa now. Yes, their timing is bad and yes, they are both busy. But when they have the time and are in the mood, they still don’t seem to be matching up well…and it’s poisoning their relationship. What’s worse is that they genuinely like and probably love one another.
Saeko is obsessed with this, but can’t see her way through it. Miwa is aware that there is a problem, but every time they get close to talking about it, something comes up. And again, they are busy and there are exams and live performances and past regrets and million other things that get in the way. Saeko can only see one alternative, so she suggests that they break up.
And…while Saeko and Miwa are trying to balance all of this with their club, and friends, and work, they are not the only people who have complicated lives. This story is much less a romance now, and much more a survey of the infinite complexity of human emotions.
Ratings:
Art โ 8
Story โ 8 More complicated with every volume
Characters โ 7 Iโm still rooting for everyone, but not sure I actually like anyone
Yuri โ 7 / LGBTQ โ 6 It’s getting queerer
Service โ 4
Overall โ 8
I find myself no longer rooting for them as a couple, although I am rooting for them as individuals. Maybe, if we and they are to be honest, they shouldn’t be together. I’ve certainly known plenty of people like that in real life. They make great friends – even friends who have sex – but aren’t a great couple. What if their individual pathologies just…clash? What if they just aren’t compatible? What if the “might have been”s and the “well, maybe”s are keeping them from moving on? You can tune in to Shogakukan’s webcomic site UraSunday to keep up with current chapters in Japanese and find out..
This series has been licensed in English – How Do We Relationship?, Volume 1 is on sale now from Viz Media!